In an era where group chats reveal more than family secrets at Thanksgiving, a particular group chat of young Republicans has taken center stage, and not for their stellar floral arrangements or amazing cookie recipes. No, this time it’s because the leaked messages were stuffed with offensive jokes that made a comedian cringe and even caused some political hearts to flutter in discomfort. Picture this: a bunch of 24- to 35-year-olds, sharp suits by day, typing away in their private chats as if they’re auditioning for a role in a fringe comedy show that only marginally differs from a horror movie.

Now, you would think that leaders from both sides of the aisle would come together to condemn such behavior—it’s offensive and frankly, a bit silly. But then you remember who you’re dealing with, and naturally, they didn’t quite agree. While many other political figures were shaking their heads and writing strongly worded letters (as if they’re penning a Victorian breakup letter), one Vice President decided it was a “Yawn, who cares?” moment. He simply suggested that growing up means realizing kids make stupid jokes, and well, he’s not entirely untrue. After all, when did the cool kids on the block stop swapping bad dad jokes and start aiming for a Nobel Peace Prize in Political Correctness?

But let’s not get too comfy here. Although some might argue that the group chat is merely a place for young folks to let off a little steam—maybe like a coffee break gone rogue—context is crucial. The messages were anti-Semitic, misogynistic, and homophobic, which feels slightly less like “just joking” and a lot more like an audition for “America’s Next Top Villain.” In their defense, they were just “joking,” right? And we all know that anyone who’s ever told a questionable joke hasn’t actually committed a grave sin worthy of losing their political future. Or have they?

It’s easy to scoff and roll one’s eyes at this drama. After all, isn’t it easier to treat these leaks like the latest episode of a reality TV show rather than an actual code of conduct? While pointing fingers and indulging in online outrage might temporarily distract the masses, it begs the question of whether these reactions contribute to a broader culture of accountability—or simply serve as fuel for partisan warfare.

One of the most delightful aspects of social media is that it gives everyone a voice—even those who might want to keep their thoughts tucked away. We’ve all made dumb jokes in private circles, whether it was debating who has the worst taste in music or why pineapple on pizza should be a legitimate crime. But the big takeaway here isn’t just that young Republicans messaged each other about things better left unsaid. It’s the realization that, in this age of digital transparency, nothing is private anymore. So folks, next time you hit “send,” remember: you might just be one leaked group chat away from a Twitter trending topic and political career meltdown. And for the love of all that’s good, maybe save the insensitive jokes for your Saturday Night Live audition.