In a recent turn of events that has left parents scratching their heads, a trans elementary school teacher has taken to TikTok, showcasing their skills—and by skills, we mean questionable dance moves and an enthusiasm for provocative music—in a classroom setting. Ah, the joys of modern education! Gone are the days of straight-laced teachers focused on academics and appropriate decorum. Now, it seems it’s all about viral moments and eye-catching content, much to the chagrin of many parents who are just trying to decipher what’s being taught to their little ones.

So picture this: a teacher dancing away with their stomach on display, proudly sharing it with the world. One might wonder if there were any guidelines that were skipped when it came to dressing for work. I mean, when did we all agree on this new dress code that allows teachers to saunter around like they’re auditioning for a music video? If this had been a standard teacher back in the day, even a half-a-flash of midriff would have led to a stern talking-to about professionalism and dressing for success. But now? Apparently, it’s all about the vibes!

And while our trans educator is clearly living their best life, waving their hands around like they’re on the set of a TikTok challenge, it raises some eyebrows—particularly when the background music is decidedly not child-friendly. A song discussing “shooting something all over your face” is not precisely what parents imagine as a soundtrack to their kids’ education. In a world where helicopter parenting is a thing, you have to question whether schools have become daycare centers for artistic expression or educational sanctuaries. Are educators really supposed to incorporate pop culture into their lesson plans?

Sure, everyone is entitled to express themselves, and kudos for anyone brave enough to choose a non-traditional teaching path. But the real question is: should kids be subjected to such a level of expression from their teachers? One may argue that schools should be places of learning, not stages for flashy performances. It’s a tough line to walk between acceptance and what is appropriate to teach our youngest minds. If this is the new normal, it might prompt many parents to consider homeschooling or at least sending their kids in with blindfolds.

And let’s not ignore the elephant in the room: is it even okay for trans individuals to teach young children? There’s room for debate. Many would say that people should be free to live their lives, but incorporating that lifestyle into the classroom in such an overt manner raises eyebrows. Children are like sponges, soaking up the environment around them. If they see something unusual, might they wonder if that’s the way to be? Kids pick up on everything, from language to behavior. So, naturally, parents watching this unfold could be forgiven for worrying about what their impressionable young ones are absorbing.

While some might shout about censorship and being closed-minded, let’s just hope there’s a healthy balance found soon. Teaching should never neglect the mission of education for the sake of entertainment or social media approval. Wouldn’t it be a sight if we could all find a way to marry the two? Perhaps we need a designated “fun time” and “learning time” where teachers can express themselves post-class hours—and keep the TikTok dances confined to their home. Wouldn’t it be nice if kids could just be kids without the distractions of adult themes buzzing in their little ears? Ah, the challenges of raising kids in a world where teaching styles seem to change as quickly as trends on social media!